Charity has always been important to me. For years I have worked in the nonprofit sector and been active in philanthropic causes. That charitable impulse is one of the reasons that Celebrancy was so appealing to me—this is a lovely, creative way to be of service to people during important moments in their lives. So, it was a natural next step when I decided “marry” my Celebrancy practice with charitable giving.I recently decided to launch “wedding with a heart.” It is a simple idea. For each wedding that I am lucky enough to officiate, I will make a contribution to a charity of the couple’s choice. For me, this is a small way of “giving back.” I am exceedingly grateful to do this kind of work—why not share my good fortune with others? With nonprofits facing financial struggles due to the recession, they can certainly use the assistance. And, there is no better way to recognize the love of the individuals who are marrying, than shining a light on things that they care about. So my couple who will be married in New York City’s Central Park this weekend have asked that a donation be made to the Central Park Conservancy, to maintain their beloved park.
I think it is an emerging trend to link the gift of falling in love and marrying with sharing one’s blessings. For instance, in 2002 the “I Do Foundation” was started in Washington, D.C. The Foundation has developed partnerships with major retailers, so that when couples receive gifts purchased through these stores, a donation will be made to a charity of the Bride and Groom’s choice. Some brides and grooms skip gifts altogether, asking that donations be made directly to charity instead.
So, my little contribution is one little way to keep the virtuous cycle of loving going and giving.
